Natasha Sutherland

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Dear Natasha
The intention of this email is to provide you with feedback regarding the effect that your books have had on me, as individual but also as a Clinical Psychologist.  I have read Bittersweet quite some time ago.  The past week I took a week off from my practice and finally had time to devote almost entirely to your book, Fairytale.  
You and your story and the way in which you share it found a very, very special place in my heart.  You touched me deeply.  The congruency and transparency with which you share your journey and your struggles speaks of integrity!  Now that I am writing this to you I find myself actually struggling to find words to convey the impact of your books to you.   Women so easily and so quickly lose their sparkle and it is so visible on their faces (in therapy and out there).  It is quite saddening.  (Fairytale also opened my own eyes regarding this in my own life.)  This book validates this reality for those women and also guides them via your own personal journey (shared with so much sincerity and genuineness).  You are truly a remarkable role model for women out there and for myself – and a true inspiration. I do hope that you can hear (see) me in saying (writing) to you that you truly are a remarkable woman who is living her calling!  My wish for you is that you will experience love in abundance!!
Warmest Regards
Larissa Ernst- Terblanche BsocSci psych (UP):BSocSci Hons (UP) MSc Clin Psych (medunsa)
 


 

 
We really had a wonderful breakfast with you this morning at AECI. Your talk was so motivating and inspirational. I literally got emotional when you started tearing at the heart.....but we also had some good laughs. Thank you!
 


 

 
420 INSIPIRED woman left the event in Secunda. Now THAT's what I call life changing #makeanimpact
 


 

 
You are a real inspiration. Enjoyed every minute of you on stage! ;-) 
 


 

 
Natasha, thank you so much for being here in Hermanus, sharing your inner strength and story with us. It meant so much to me for you taking the time to personally talk to me, listen to me and being like a real friend. You are such an amazing woman, but you give so much of yourself to help and motivate other women in similiar situations. You deserve the best in life, you are the whole package.
 
 


 

 
N, ek was heerlik verras met jou praatjie! Dis wonderlik motiverend en inspirerend! Die hele praatjie kan saamgevat word in Ps 139. Groete van Secunda
 


 

 
Thanx Natasha for gracing us with ur presence in Nelspruit. We had a great time with our mermaids.
 


 

 
Liewe Tash ! Love love love jou sprankeljoernale ! Dis die grootste bederf ! Ek lag uit my maag ! Lol
 


 

 
I enjoyed every single minute of it. When are you coming to Nelspruit again? Thanks for reminding me to be awesome and enjoy being a wonderfull and o yes, to get my muchness back (Nelspruit, Flight Centre)
 


 

 
You were great Natasha! It was a privelege having you as guest speaker! Mermaid gangs rule!
 


 

 
Thanks for gracing us with your presence - your talk was awesome - you rocked Nelspruit - come back soon...! Xx
 


 

 
Hi N!het sopas Bittersweet klaar gelees na my sus hom al vir my vir Kersfees gekoop ht! wat I fantastiese positiewe boek! voorwaar al my vriendinne se Kers en verjaardag geskenke! dankie vir die boek!!!!! net wt k nodig ht op die tydstip in my lewe! groete M
 


 

 
Hey Natasha! Cant wait to see u in Maclear! Must tell (and thank you) you about the doors u opend for me! Thanx for being my inspiration and my drve to go forward! 
 


 

 
Eks besig om Sprokie te lees...die brief op bl 61 is vir my geskryf. Eks so bly dis nie net ek wat so voel! :-)
 


 

 
Reading about your low self esteem chapter I want you to know that after I met you face to face and saw first hand the effect you had on all of us at Spier, it must take an incredible, bright,smart,funny,warm and beautiful person to unite 300 sisters, without a trace of jealousy, to lift our spirits and warm our hearts. This is no small victory! I wish you love in abundance 
 


 

 
 
Hi Dame, terwyl ek hier rondploetter dwarrel my mooi vrou in die studeerkamer met 'n groot lag in haar seile, net om my te vertel van die staaltjies van jou sprokies boek. Sonder pouse vertel sy my van hoe jy in 'n mall sit met niemand wat jou hantekening soek nie en die storie van die bloody mary. Dankie vir jou inspirasie!
 


 

 
Tash p.175 (Sprokie) Flippit, dankie! Jy het my laat besef: Ek IS genoeg! Ek IS mooi! (Voue en plooie tenspyt, want ja EK het uit die stootwaentjie geval) Ek IS 'n prinses! As ek kyk in my hondekinders se oe - vol liefde vol van beloftes - besef ek Annie, jy leef!!! Dankie vir jou boek - ek lees hom deur training (hehehe) ook. YOU GO GIRL!!!!! 
 


 

 
Thanx for being an inspiration to me! Love your books! :)
 


 

 

Dankie vir n baie inspirational praatjie vanoggend! het dit so geniet!jy het beslis jou sparkle gevind en dit is great!!!gaan jou boek beslis gaan koop :) jys n great mens. bly jy kon darem n walvis sien terwyl jy hier is.enjoy x
 


 

 
Ek het 'Sprokie' geniet, die straaltjie saam die seuns, veral die sokker belewenis, die aanhalings en natuurlik 'katie'. Wag vir jou nuwe boek, jy is n inspirasie vir baie.
 


 

 
Just want to say you are such a wonderfull woman. Would like to meet you one day and tell you what your books did for me i have read is (still busy with Sprokie) and its amazing !! Keep up the good work!!
 


 

 
I have started from back to front.... reading your 2nd book first :) "Fairytale ...." What an inspirational piece of work. Thank you - I have thus far choked up, cried, giggled, laughed out loud, eaten 3x toblerones and felt my inner tiger growl and made peace with my "not enough" sister.... and I am only on page 100.....! I do not want it to end and cannot wait to "read bittersweet" Once again thank you and congratulations on being a super, single, sexy, self-indulgent, stable, sane, self assured woman and mother!!!! Love Lynette Burns
 


 

 
Hi Natasha thanks for your wonderful speech today at Spier. It was a privilege. God bless you and your 2 boys.
 


 

 
Great book. Love your writing
 


 

 
 
Ek is iemand wat NOOIT lees. Ek verpest dit eintlik maar "Natasha" se boekke het ek almal al gelees. So sy kan haar self 'n pluimpie gee dat sy mense kry om te lees en aanhou lees. Ek dink dis nogal enige skrywer se droom om mense te kry om te lees. Baie Dankie vi jou inspereurende boekke. PS: Jy kan ma roomys eet jy is goed genoeg....:)
 
 


 

 
Ek het 2 dae in die bed gebly om jou boek klaar te lees WHOW IT WAS STUNNING x
 


 

 
Got Sprokie for my birthday,what a great birthday gift,enjoy it to the fullest.
 


 

 
Natasha, you have been an inspiration with your speech today at Spier. There is no words to really describe it. It was just awesome!
 


 

 
Thank you for a wonderfull day at Spier. You inspired us all!! Please come to Cape Town more often, we promise upgrade our fairytale knowledge!
 


 

 
Loving Fairytale...you speak to the core of a single mom.Laughing and crying...Laughing until I am crying
#movingmountains
 


 

 
Hi Natasha, Enjoyed a lovely day at spier today and enjoyed your Motivation speach. You are a very special young woman. Your two boys are blessed to have you for their mom. God bless you !  Susan Boshoff
 


 

 
Hi! Just wanted to thank you again for this mornings fab session at Spier! It's great to have amazing people like you around to inspire us and lift our spirits! Can't wait to start reading your book-as soon as the girls are asleep! :-)
 


 

 
"Sprokie" is definitely becoming my second bible! Just to remind me..of me.xx
 


 

 
Hi Natasha, I am reading ''Fairytale'' now! Loved ''Bittersweet'', helped so much with my own life, and helped me to understand what my mom went through with her divorce from my dad. ''Fairytale'' is Awsome! You are a true inspiration to me..... Thank you so much for the GREAT person you are :)
 


 

 
Wow Wow and double wow! I so enjoyed your talk this morning! If fire can bring forth such insight and understanding, who are we to resist it? Thank you for turning you misery into our women' salvation ( not meant in a religious way) May you be blessed and when ready, may all your princess dreams come true... to the real forever and ever!
 


 

 
Is besig om sprokie te lees!!! WOW!! baie geluk met die sukses van jou boeke, kan nie wag vir die volgende een nie!
 


 

 
Natasha - dankie baie, baie, baie!!!! Jy is 'n stunning mens en ek weet duisende mense se lewens is aangeraak deur jou amazing onderhoud vanoggend. Jy is 'n hero vir baie vrouens - - en mans!! Mooi week verder - hoop ons kan weer gesels. Baie liefde vir jou.
 

 

Thank you for your inspiring talk this morning, honestly the best guest speaker I have ever heard.
- Sharon Ebing Roe

 


 

Thanx for an AMAZING breakfast and for You!!The message you gave to me through your speech will definately change my perspective of things!!!You are amazing. Thank you for being YOU!!!
- Annali De Lange
 


Absolutely loved both "Bittersweet" and "Fairytale..."! I also love the words spoken by Oprah "Forgiveness is letting go of the hope that the past could have been any different". Thanx for sharing and opening your heart. You are such an inspiration!

- Janine Griffith

 


 

Dearest Natasha-I was so touched by your inspirational message at Chesterhouse on Saturday! You truly are like a breath of fresh air blowing away the monotony of the daily grind and encouraging us to simply enjoy and engage in the dance of life. I would also like to thank you for helping a very special friend of mine on her road to healing...I know that your words comforted her incredibly. Keep on sparkling! XXX

- Carol Ann Pope

 


 

I read the words special women write to you, a very special lady. I suddenly realize - we are all in search of something more, muchness par excellance and then it hit me ... we are all connected
- Felicia Lategan

 


 

What an inspirational morning!!!! I will most definitely find my muchness and get my "woema" back! Thank you Natasha for being a 'real woman'. Keep your sparkle going. "Cause baby you're a firework!" xx
- Judy Southey Thiart

 


 

Thank you for the most inspirational and amazing talk this morning... It was fantastic and definitely the best I've ever heard...
- Jo-Anne Nicholson
 

 


 

‘Every woman should read this book. Natasha blew me away with her writing, her anecdotes and her story.’
- Noeleen Maholwana Sangqu

 


 

Hi Natasha....I am sleep deprived...and it's all your fault...lol...just joking. I finished book 1 in 4 days and now I have book 2... And I am NOT getting enough sleep. It's wAy better than chocolate...and that's deep. I love the way you write as I think in pictures and I am right there....hovering just just outside the realm of realness. Thank u for sharing your story and giving me, for one, the courage to speak my truth. . Pls pls pls don't stop writing....I was deeply frustrated that I had to put your book down to come to work this morning! Have a great weekend!
- Michelle Greyvenstein

 


 

Ek stem!!! Moenie ophou nie. Dis sooooo 'n ontvlugting om jou boek te lees. Sit op jou sonbril girl, my sprankel skyn skerp vanoggend.
- Anelda BrandVan Zyl

 

 

To my Muchness Fairy, Natasha: finished your awesome book in 5 days... wow is all I can utter at this stage! Thank you! Off I go today free of stuckness & too many mind, hand in hand with Muchness and so much Grace to lead the way. You are changing so many lives by being... just you! Xx
- Felicia Lategan


 

I SO enjoyed your inspiring words at Southdowns on Saturday. You were WONDERFUL! Bought Fairytale and so far have not been able to put it down. In real search of my sparkle!!!! You are a wonderful example to all the people in your life and especially to your two boys! Wishing you much sparkle in your life too.
- Alyssa


 


 

Am so sorry for being emotional but my heart and feelings are so raw…I only lost a year of my life but the pain of betrayal is still very real …just want you to know that I have slept with your book Bittersweet under my pillow for the past 3 months and whenever I have difficulty sleeping I pull it out and read it ..thank you …
- Melissa

 


 

Aggenee!!! My SPROKIE is klaar. Het skoon verlore gevoel toe ek sien ek het so pas die laaste blad gelees. Dankie dit was jam jam. Amper soos peanutbutter en stroop broodjies en Toblerone. Ek sal onthou van die boek: Droom, leef, geniet, vat kanse, speel, wees lief, proe, ruik, voel, sien, skud jou hare, geniet seks, dans in die reen, troetel jou vriendinne en kinders, gee genoeg drukkies, moenie so ernstig wees nie. Doen alles wat jy nog altyd wou doen- and bugger the people…you are the people!!
– Anelda


 

Your book was positively superb! I read it from beginning to end and especially loved the 'once upon a times with Katie Banarama'. I think so many of us are stuck in some away, either can't move forward or we lose our muchness. Keep up the great work that you do you touch so many hearts! :) God bless you
- Suzanne Elizabeth Lotz

 


 

Natasha, my sister LOVES the book. And she also says "this woman and I think alike." Been hearing her laugh a lot while reading it. She couldn't wait to start reading it, so thank you! Blessings xx
- Sharl Els

 


 

Bittersweet made me laugh and cry. Today I went out to buy Fairytale! Can't WAIT to start reading it! Thanks for helping me stay motivated! Now I realise there is hope for me and I'm not alone. Much love
- Shannon Dickson

 


 

Hi Natasha baie sad dat ek nie jou "talk"in Windhoek kon bywoon nie,maar het vir my "Sprokie"georder,kan nie wag om dit te kry nie.Al my vriendinne praat oor hoe wonderlik jou praatjie was,so jy sal defnitief gou weer Nam toe moet kom dat ek dit nie weer mis nie.Liefde uit n grasgroen Kalahari
- Anel Boltman

 


 

Natasha…I am so enjoying your book …and can identify with so much that you have written about. Thank you …divorce is such a lonely time that it is very comforting to read that I am not alone in my experiences…

Ek is besig om jou nuwe boek te lees. Soos die eerste een, is die een net so inspirerend. Dis dis sielskos! Ek gaan hom ook vir die hele wereld uitdeel om te lees. Hoop jy sien kans vir nog 'n paar boeke...
- Annelize van Dyk

 


 

I went to the workshop you had on Saturday and boy oh boy did you hit me dead centre in the face. You go girl you are truly an inspiration for the woman of today Busy with the book and so true. We must really all wake up and smell the coffee. Carry on the way you are you are great!!! LUL
- Alta van den Heever

 


 

What a wonderful and inspiring speech. Thank you.
- Cathy Brookes


 

Natasha, Thanx for your kind words. I never realised that With my husbands illness and my job that I totally lost myself. What a callback to reality it was. On the other hand, even though the light in my life is very ill after 30 years, raising 18 kids(thank heaven not all our own!!!!!) he still hold my heart in the palm of his hand and he will always be my Prince Charming. He loved the wand you gave me..

- Gertjè Monk

 


 

Bittersweet came at the perfect time in my life and was very inspirational. And just a few days ago I started writing in a journal with the hope of somehow finding a purpose of 'me' in there. SO today I started reading Fairytale and once again, it came at the perfect time. You and the work that you do are a blessing to others. Here's to living sideways.
- Cherise Finlay


 

‘At first you are curious about the dramas and sensation surrounding the woman’s life that makes you want to listen to her, but then Natasha starts revealing her wise and precious soul.’

– Beeld

 


Hi Natasha. Yesterday finished reading Fairytale... WOW and WOW !! I enjoyed it soooooo much, couldn't put it down and when finished felt sad to put it down... have to start from page 1 again. I love your books, love your writing style, love your personality (whatever your soul is made of, it's the same as me). My quest for my Muchness has started... whoo hoo !! Please keep on writing....

- Juliette Illingworth Meintjes

 


 

Natasha..jy weet dit seker reeds.. maar wou met jou deel wat jou stories vir my en sekerlik baie ander vrounes beteken wat self deur 'n egskeiding gaan. Jou stories beteken vir my...hoop...gerustelling..vrede...moed..gevoel.. Ek kon nog nooit vir enige iemand "articulate" waardeer ek gaan nie en ek het dit wat ek nie kon beskryf nie in jou boeke gelees.. dankie daarvoor
- Silvia Camara

 


 

Hi Natasha. I might be the ONLY testosterone generating organism that will write on this website and probably the only point at which our lives meet is a passion for rugby , but then the first Springbok captain that I watched play was Felix du Plessis, Morne’s dad! Tx for helping out with the perennial problem that we oestrogen deprived people have of trying to gain insight into our partners of the species.

Regards

Mark hiding under Jock Main

 


 

Thank u for the inspiring msg at Leeuwenhof yesterday! U are a woman of great strength! Busy ready Fairytale! Loving every page so far! Have a blessed week
- Reecia Landman Botha

 


 

Finished "Sprokie" over the weekend...Enjoyed it !!! When is your next book on the shelves? Ha Ha Ha :-)))
- Christa Erasmus DeWet

 


 

Natasha Sutherland ha ha ha ...(Ooops I just fell off my chair!) Tx for the compliment!


 

Love your book! Now at chapter 12,so far each one has meant something for me! And Miss Katie a blast!!
- Riana Middel


 

Hi Natasha ek geniet jou boek vreeslik. Net gister oggend pak ek my handsak uit en sorteer die wimpy sweets en dinosaurs tussen my lipstick en tissues. En raai watter hoofstuk lees ek toe gister middag? On Handbags and stuff...! So lekker gelag
- Stefanie Wilkens de Kock

 


 

Well now how can I not like a fellow Sharks supporters page, especially one where ladies can go to if they are looking for some encouragement to better help them in the crappy situation they find themselves in ....... Continue the good work Natasha, and may the future hold only good stuff for you and all the ladies out there ........ Ok .... I have now over exhausted my afrikaner brain .......
- Wessel Bothma

 


 

Roxy darling your book is helping so many, and hopefully sending a message that although a difficult and challenging process lies ahead, there is always life beyond the discovery that your husband has been having an affair…Well done

Xxx Isabella

 


 

It is a non – sensational but inspiring tale of love, life and forgiveness.’
– Pasella

 


 

Toe jou egskeiding gebeur het, het ek gedink wow dis sad, want ekt deur dieselfde gegaan, toe lees ek Bittersoet en dink by myself ons lewens paadjies is so dieselfde, ek lees tans Sprokie, en besef ons het soveel in gemeen....amazing! Jy is n besondere mens.
- Anel Spalding- Bronkhorst


 

Het vandag "Sprokie" begin lees, wat 'n eye opener?? Geniet elke bladsy en kry ongelooflik baie kos vir my siel. Baie waar woorde, sal dit aanveveel vir elke mens wat vasgevang is iewers in die "middel"
- Betty Naude Labuschagne


 

Wow Natasha…My passie is weer wakker gemaak. Om net te wees. Moenie aanvaarding soek in ander mense, dinge, situasies…JUST BE! Dankie!
- Roeleen

 


 

Hi Natasha ~ Finished your book Bittersweet today and bought Fairytale and now a quarter of the way through it ~ can't put it down! Congratulations on your success! Much love xxxx
- Shannon


 

I'm only on pg32 of Fairytale and already had to catch a tear and giggled between pages - beautiful words you write!
- sonja Buytendag

 


 

Tx Natasha for reminding us how to access the Power within ourselves in order to redefine the lives we want to live…
- Nozipho

 


 

Had a ball last night at the MMTC dinner at Roodepoort Country Club. you were great and an inspiration for many reasons
- Antoinette Botha Do Pinheiro

 


 

Dit was ongelooflik lekker!natasha ek kan net nie jou boek neer sit nie,ek het nog net die laaste chapter,ek is n 20jarige meisie en jou boek maak my oe oop!baie danki
- Rozette 'R' Roos

 


 

Purchased "Fairytale" on Friday and am seriously excited to start reading it today!!!! Loved "Bittersweet" and meeting u on Women's Day in Paarl was the highlight of my year, u made a huge impression on me and I felt incited to make huge changes in my life, I will never be the same, so thanx Natasha, go well x
- Tessi Bento


Have just finished reading Fairytale - I really loved it. It is such an inspirational book - I laughed and cried and identified with so much of it. Have learned a lot in the quest of regaining my muchness (or my sparkle!!!). It's going to be a LONG journey but I am motivated!!!!
- Alyssa Carolyn George Koorts


Ek sien dagliks hoe mense se eie onsekerhede an ego’s hulle pooitjie om waarlik voluit te lewe omdat hulle hulself rig volgens ander mense se verwagtinge . Jy leer vir ons dat ‘being true to yourself’ die kern van geluk is en dat elke mens verantwoordelikheid vir sy/hy eie geluk moet anvaar. DAnkie dankie dankie
– Etta


 

Self esteem, weight, my marraige but mostly myself - taking that journey of the senses to find LOVE - in myself - in order not only to be happy but more importantly - FULFILLED! That is really what I am missing. Congratualtions again Natasha - such a beautiful book - may it and you go from strength to strength. Hoping the man near the pink the roses becomes more than just an SMS!!!! xxxI have just started reading your book and lm loving it :-)

- Nicole Whyte

 


 

Hi there, you sure are one incredible lady. I watched Glitterati, you left me speechless. One huge ray of sunshine! Blessings for u and loved ones! Xx
- Anri Botha

 


 

Hi, ek bewonder jou al vir solank, bly ek kon jou kry op fb! Dankie dat jy n inspirasie is vir so baie vroue! Niks kry jot onder, dis di manier hoe jy opstaan wat so wonderlik is! Dankie
- Jeanette Pretorius

 


 

Natasha Sutherland Hey Jeanette....I still stumble and fall over many things ...but i do try always to get up and see the bigger picture of life and carry on going and growing ...(but am far from perfect!!)...tx for ur kind words! Xx-

 


 

Hi Natasha, read both Bittersweet and Fairytale... Thank you, you are an inspiration!!! *BIG HUG* (Sometimes it felt like I was reading my own life story)
- Runette Geyser Hamilton

 


 

Hi Natasha…Trevor here… I was married for 10 years to a notorious bipolar schizophrenic. Yeah baby! Been there, done that, got the blood on the t-shirt. Its faith that gets you through. Faith and bit of Bittersweet….
- Trevor

 


 

What a wonderful inspration you are to so many of us! Can't wait to read your book, after your talk on the ship...it was the best I've ever had the honour to attend, and it will stay with me for the rest of my life, while I 'write' my own Fairytale life story...

- Nelia Read

 


 

Dear Natasha

The intention of this email is to provide you with feedback regarding the effect that your books has had on me, as individual but also as a Clinical Psychologist. I have read Bittersweet quite some time ago. The past week I took a week off from my practice and finally had time to devote almost entirely to your book, Fairytale.

You and your story and the way in which you share it found a very, very special place in my heart. You touched me deeply. The congruency and transparency with which you share your journey and your struggles speaks of integrity! Now that I am writing this to you I find myself actually struggling to find words to convey the impact of your books to you. Women so easily and so quickly lose their sparkle and it is so visible on their faces (in therapy and out there). It is quite saddening. (Fairytale also opened my own eyes regarding this in my own life.) This book validates this reality for those women and also guides them via your own personal journey (shared with so much sincerity and genuineness). You are truly a remarkable role model for women out there and for myself – and a true inspiration. I do hope that you can hear (see) me in saying (writing) to you that you truly are a remarkable woman who is living her calling! My wish for you is that you will experience love in abundance!!

Warmest Regards

Larissa Ernst- Terblanche BsocSci psych (UP):BSocSci Hons (UP) MSc Clin Psych (medunsa)